Step 13. Making life beautiful

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 Dear Reader the power to choose is one of the greatest gifts of humanity.

Being able to choose our thoughts and emotions allows us a special kind of power in our lives – a power that we can use to benefit ourselves, or that we can unconsciously and unintentionally harm ourselves through poor use of it.

Possibly the greatest frustration in most people’s lives is finding themselves in situations, events and circumstances beyond their control. This lack of control can make one feel helpless and frustrated.

We may not be able to control everything in life but the one thing we can control is ourselves, our thoughts, feelings and reactions.

So how do we do this?


Step 13. Making life beautiful:

Continue to belief in sacredness, in love and beauty.

Choose to stay focused on the gift you are to each other.

Remind each other of the option to create special moments.

Remind each other to turn away from cultural co-dependence.

Know that we can decide how we should be.

We can choose to stay open to creating our own definitions, rules and legends – we don’t have to do it the ugly way.

  We get to choose every moment. 


  • What can you do to help your partner make their life beautiful?
  • What can you do to make your own life beautiful?  Take a moment to really think about this, dear Reader, and see how you can practice this daily.


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